How to keep teams united in a polarized world

Fostering a culture of productive disagreement

One in three workers in the US report that political conversations at work have negatively affected their relationships with colleagues (MIT Sloan Management Review, 2022). And a recent survey of 630 HR and legal leaders in 13 European countries found 86% of employers are struggling to manage political tensions at work, especially during elections or global crises (Littler, 2024).

Political identity and the divisions of our increasingly polarized society are now showing up at work. At the same time, pressure is increasing across industries. Do more with less. Increase output. Deliver profits. Transform fast.

The cost if unaddressed? Increased stress, reduced creativity and productivity, lower customer satisfaction and diminished innovation potential. Because when people don’t feel safe to speak up, they hold back ideas, avoid tough conversations, and disengage.

The real challenge isn’t disagreement itself. It’s that we’re losing the ability to disagree with respect and curiosity. To have productive disagreements.

The organizations successfully navigating these challenges aren't suppressing differences – they're leveraging them.

Here are four key considerations as you reflect on your organization.

Rouven Ramon Steinfeld
Managing Partner & Co-Founder, The DO

“In our digitalized echo chambers, we're forgetting how to engage with someone who disagrees with us. We're losing the art of productive disagreement right when we need it most.”

1. Unity doesn’t mean uniformity: Anchor in shared purpose

Yes, “shared purpose” has been part of the corporate wallpaper for two decades now. But in practice, that shared “why” is what allows people to disagree productively without losing the plot.

Successful leadership returns to:
- The organization’s mission
- The strategic transformation underway
- The success of the whole, not just the part

And it distinguishes between those areas where diverse opinions are welcome and where alignment is non-negotiable: Moments of strategic pivot, values-based decisions, or mission-critical priorities.

2. Hold space for honest conversations

Where teams operate in isolation, dysfunctional conflict thrives. Without communication across departments and cross-functional touchpoints, there’s little space for empathy, perspective-taking, or mutual respect. The result: Even the most polished strategies struggle to take root.

A solution we see working in our programs: Creating space for honest conversations and intentional encounters that lay the foundation for a resilient, future-ready organization.

Take our work with a global technology leader. Tensions between departments and silos were threatening to derail a major transformation. So together, we built a movement around one simple question: “How do we create good energy around here?”

Our approach brought small, diverse groups across all hierarchies, departments, and countries into regular, face-to-face conversation. Guided by trained facilitators and internal champions, each group followed consistent formats and rituals that built trust and psychological safety.

Eventually, this movement became a pillar of the company’s transformation architecture. Most important: It forged connections between 4,000+ employees – from top executives and board members to factory-floor staff.

The result? Better ways of working. Greater innovation capacity. Measurable business impact.

What helped:
- Ground rules like “Assume positive intent” and “Challenge ideas, not individuals.”
- Honest debriefs after tough conversations: “What worked? What was hard? What should we try next time?”
- Recognition for those who spoke up – especially when challenging senior voices.

“Conflict is not the opposite of collaboration – it's often a doorway to it.”

3. Flip the script: From avoiding conflict to leveraging differences

Disagreement turns dysfunctional only when it’s suppressed or mismanaged. Handled right, disagreement can be the engine of progress. Too much harmony often signals stagnation. When people avoid conflict, they avoid truth.

What helps is a mindset shift: from dodging disagreement to using it. Productive tension and diverse perspectives sharpen ideas, expose blind spots, and drive better decisions.

Instead of shutting down tension, create rituals for working through it: “I sense there are different viewpoints in the room. Let’s surface them with care.”

Try the 1-2-4-All technique (from Liberating Structures): Start with individual reflection, move to paired sharing, then small groups, and finally whole-group dialogue. This structure creates psychological safety while surfacing diverse perspectiveses.

4. Invest in conflict-intelligent leadership

Navigating tension isn’t a personality trait – it’s a leadership skill. New research from Columbia University’s ICCCR identifies four teachable competencies that help leaders handle conflict more effectively:

Self-awareness and regulation: The ability to manage your reactions and stay calm under pressure

Social-conflict skills: Deep listening, balanced advocacy, and bias awareness that lead to more constructive outcomes

Situational adaptivity: Knowing when to push, pause, or pivot based on context

Systemic wisdom: The capacity to tackle entrenched conflicts by seeing the bigger picture and working through complexity

The ROI is immediate: Teams that feel heard and valued through productive conflict resolution show higher engagement, increased innovation capacity, and measurable business impact.

We’re living in a fractured world, and that’s not going to change anytime soon. The path forward isn’t about erasing differences. It’s about holding space for tension while providing clear direction.

Effective leaders are equipped to master this balance and create environments where diverse perspectives drive innovation rather than divide teams.

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